5 Common But Critical Mistakes

Would you like to know how to get your ex boyfriend back? If so, it begins with knowing what NOT to do.

All relationships go through good and bad times. Many folks, deeply in love, will work through the bad times to ensure they continue to have good ones. However, some relationships, no matter how hard a couple tries, end in a breakup. And, no matter how it happens, no matter who initiates, a breakup is the hardest thing in life to deal with. After all, a breakup often feels like one’s life is ending; a death.

Are you a woman who’s recently been dumped and would like to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back? Are you newly single and have a desire to bring him into your arms? If so, then it’s very important you learn what you shouldn’t do. If you make mistakes trying to win back your ex, it’s imperative you don’t make them repeatedly. There are five mistakes you must avoid doing when trying to get back together with your ex-boyfriend.

How To Get Him Back: 5 Crucial Mistakes That Can Stop Your Plan In Its Track

1 – Being Your Ex’s Doormat and Giving Him Power Over You

Too many women, when they’re being dumped, plead their case about why their man shouldn’t leave them. Oftentimes, they’ll beg their ex to stay, saying they’ll do whatever they want and desire. Wrong! This only gives your ex power to walk right over you and use you anyway they see fit. That is, until he finds someone else he respects. You’ll only be considered a sex buddy, not a true partner in a relationship. Respect is necessary if you really want to win back your ex so make sure you get and/or keep it.

2 – Buying Your Ex Presents

Have you ever heard of the old saying, “You can’t buy love”? Guess what? You can’t! Sure, you can buy your ex gifts all you want to and it might work for a short time but there won’t be any real love mixed in with it. Gifts do not create or bring back attraction. Rather, all buying gifts tell your ex is that you have flaws you don’t want him to see and that you can’t win him back on what you have alone.

3 – Smothering Him With Affection and Attention

You might think that showing repeated affection and attention is the way to win back your ex. However, this can make your ex run away quicker than anything. It’s fatal to any relationship so if you want to get your ex back, avoid repeated “I love yous” and “I miss you”s at all cost. Besides, these “heartfelt feelings” might have been what sent him packing in the first place.

4 – Using Logic and Reason

Believe it or not, there’s no way to use logic to win back your ex. There’s no way you can convince your ex to love you again. Emotions don’t work on logic. The heart controls all the emotions. Thus, you need do something that pulls their heart strings. And, again, that doesn’t mean buying him gifts and smothering him with attention.

5 – Not Getting Any Help

The reality behind breakups and makeups and that people will make mistakes. After all, trying to win back an ex is difficult to do. And, there is a right way to win back your ex and there is a wrong way.

It can be unnerving getting “professional” help for your relationship. However, with time and patience, you can gain control over yourself back. And, once you do that, you can work toward winning back your ex’s heart. If you really want to win back your ex, you need to make the effort to do everything right in your goal.

You might come across a number of other “how to get your ex boyfriend back” tips; but, there is one thing you can be certain about: you have to work on yourself before you can work on getting back the man and relationship you lost. Do that and, before you know it, you’ll have him back in your arms.

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back: 5 Common But Critical Mistakes Women Make Trying To Win Back Their Ex, brought to you by Karen Winters.

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