Win Back Your Ex

Are you asking yourself what went wrong, where the road turned and you and your ex boyfriend or husband started traveling on separate roads? If you’ve found yourself on this page reading this article then your clearly searching for an answer to the question how do you win back your ex boyfriend.

I wish I had an answer that would calm your heart and tell you that it’s all going to be OK but that’s not my call to make. I can however try and help you look back over the past few months and try and find out where it all went wrong. Since just about all relationships are based on the same principals and emotions you can look back over your personal history with him and zero in on how, exactly, to win him back for good.

Let’s look at some of the most common reasons relationships fail…


There is an old saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, most relationships begin with a physical attraction, you wouldn’t have talked to or agreed to that first date if you were not physically attracted to them. Let’s look closer at this, has there been a physical change in the past 6 months that may have attributed to your breakup up? This could be anything from a new haircut or a change in your clothing style to something more obvious like an disfiguring accident or extreme weight loss / gain. Don’t forget that this could also be on his end, you don’t have to be at blame here and shouldn’t walk into this thinking the breakup was your fault. Find a picture of yourself that was taken closer to when you first started dating. Sit in a chair and stare at this photo for 10 minutes. Study it, look at your hair, clothing, posture, everything. After 10 minutes go to the mirror with the photo and look for the differences. There may be nothing there but you just might find a difference that you can use to win back your ex boyfriend.


How much do you have in common? Did you do a lot of things together then just suddenly stop or maybe one of you has changed as far as the things you enjoy doing. These are some of the things you have to consider if you stand a chance to win back your ex boyfriend. If you don’t like doing the same things anymore then maybe it’s time to find some new things that spark both your interests. You don’t have to have everything in common, I don’t know of a single couple that does but there should be a few things that you both like to do together.


Men have a tendency to compensate for the loss of a girlfriend by getting a new one as quickly as possible. This in turn makes the ex girlfriend (you) think that they should do the same and find a handsome guy to help make him jealous. This is a dangerous road and could destroy any hope of rekindling the flame. You see, seeing you with another guy may drive him closer to the woman he is with and that’s not what you want. Keep your cool and look for another way. Jealousy will get you no where fast.

Advice To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend, brought to you by Karen Winters.

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