7 Ways To Get Him Back Forever

Parting way’s with your ex is bad enough but when it comes as a surprise it’s even worse. If you want to get him back and your willing to put some work into it then there are a number of things you can try to resurrect the relationship. Some of them are covered here, with a little research you’ll be able to come up with a few more tricks to get your boyfriend back.

The first thing you need to look at is the root cause of the breakup, it’s time to put your pride aside and start looking for the reasons that your relationship ended in the first place. More than likely there were a number of things that contributed to the break-up but it’s typically not a single act that got you into this situation. The following suggestions will only work if the relationship did not end due to something big such as infidelity. To be honest, if you broke up because he cheated on you and you still want to get him back then, sister, you need more help than I can give…

7 Ways To Get Him Back

  1. Do not appear desperate for him – He will see this as a sign of weakness and not want anything to do with you. I’m not saying to completely ignore him but don’t go out of your way to see him and when you do see him then don’t act like your world is crushed. If you appear to be completely over him it will set his mind thinking about what he may be missing out on.
  2. Do not try and change – There are a lot of woman that think it’s something they are doing or some way they are acting that caused the breakup. Guess what, unless you were hiding some huge thing from him then he fell in love with you just the way you are. Don’t try and act more like something your not, this will not get him back.
  3. Do not isolate yourself from friends you have in common with your ex boyfriend – If you isolate yourself from these people then he’ll know your not over him. If your ex finds out your having fun without him it may peak his curiosity causing him to call you. If this happens he’ll be putty in your hands.
  4. Do try dating other people – If he sees you with someone else and he still has feelings for you then his jealousy may kick in. He’ll start calling you and that is exactly where you want his mind to be, on you.
  5. Do stay busy – Go out with your friends. If you sit at home thinking about your ex boyfriend all the time then you’ll appear desperate when you happen to see him. Keep your mind fresh, the best way to do this is to be doing something fun. You never know, he might happen to see you having fun and start thinking about you!
  6. Do make yourself look good – Make sure when he sees you that your looking your best. In a long term relationship you can lose track of yourself and let yourself go a little (or sometimes more than a little) if this is the case then treat yourself to a new hairstyle or some nicer clothes to go out in. This “new you” could be just what the doctor ordered.
  7. Do not completely cut him off – There is a difference between ignoring him and completely breaking contact. If you don’t leave the door open then you won’t have an opportunity to let your ex boyfriend become your boyfriend again.

These are just a few of the things you can do to try and convince your ex that you are still the one. Keep your eyes and your mind open for different things that might help. Matt Huston has an ebook out that everyone is talking about, if you’d like to see what it’s all about you can read my review of his ebook.

7 Ways To Get Him Back Forever, brought to you by Karen Winters.

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